What I want to say to my husband...
How could you have done this? The man who I know and love would not have done this. Who are you? Where is my husband? Why did you do this? If you were so unhappy, why didn't you talk to me all the times I tried to talk to you before it ever even came to this? Do you know how much you have hurt me? Do you even care? This was more than a one night stand or a fling - this was an affair. YOU have committed adultery!!!! Do you know that? Do you care? Was she worth it? Was she worth the pain that it has caused me, caused us, caused our life together? HOW COULD YOU HAVE DONE THIS?????????????????????????
What I want to say to her...
What is wrong with you? What gives you the right to sleep with someone else's husband - MY husband!?!? I witnessed you flirting with him over a year ago - have you been planning this ever since then? Have you done this before? You are supposed to be a role model for your child - how can you look at him everyday and know that this is the kind of person you are? Would you like him to grow up and have an affair with someone else's wife? Well, would you -because that is what you are teaching him to do!!! My husband claims you "feel bad" because you have been cheated on before, well in my eyes that makes it even worse! Is this now your mission, just to go out and sleep with every married man whom you can lure in so that you can make their wives feel the pain that you felt when your fiance did this to you? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??????????????????????????
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Go for it....what's stopping you? Better to get it out than to hold it in and get more and more worked up over it. You know her name and can probably get her number pretty easily. Check the cell phone records. It would be a good release and probably make you feel more empowered.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure I would talk to her, but I would ask him some of the questions. I think the one about being unhappy and not talking to you about it is very important.
ReplyDeleteWhat does he say to you each night when he comes home. How was the weekend for you, individually and together?